Paul Smith

My deepest passion is a commitment to helping you learn who you really are. My desire is to assist you in embracing unconditional love in your life to ignite your creativity and allow you to have the life that you are meant to live.

paul_photoHow I Got Here

Most of my life was about doing what others thought was best for me. The little boy did what my parents wanted. As that little boy grew older he progressed to doing what the teachers wanted, then the peer group, society, girlfriends, bosses, authorities, etc. As time went on, the box I created for myself became less and less comfortable. My life had become a revolving door of anger, secretiveness and depression. I was hopelessly stuck in blame and had failed to take full responsibility for my life.

Then something snapped…

In a time of total darkness, overwhelmed by stress and anxiety the desire to take action and seek help took over. My aim was to find out how to bring a measure of happiness into my life and attain some success. I reasoned that if others could be happy and successful, then it was possible for me too. Hence my pursuit of personal growth began.

Key Concepts Discovered

The first key concept that I learned is; what you believe is a product of your experiences and not necessarily the highest truth. What you believe creates your reality. This concept propelled me forward to explore various methods for aligning one’s truth with the highest truth. I came to understand that beliefs are the root of everything and that by changing your beliefs you can change what you experience from life.

As my journey continued, the desire of being in service to others through the use of personal growth tools appealed to me. As a result of many hundreds of hours of session work, a similar pattern began to emerge again and again among the individuals that sought assistance. The pattern concerns individuals who say they want to get healthy and improve their lives, but they stay hopelessly stuck. Their subconscious mind keeps them exactly where they want to be. Unless the individual understands that their subconscious mind is often at odds with their conscious mind and is prepared to work through it, they stand little chance of moving forward.

Everyone Brings You a Gift

I realized that every person that came to me brought me a gift. A gift delivered in the form of a lesson. No longer was it possible to see myself as simply a 3rd party observer of other’s lives. It was imperative the lesson be learned in order to facilitate that individual’s healing. Clients tend to outgrow their practitioner’s because the practitioner has failed to grow with their clients’.

How to Love a Nemesis

I was carrying a lot of anger and resentment towards people who had hurt me. I blamed them for the problems in my life. Upon taking full responsibility for my life, the truth about situations with these individuals became clear to me. Very few people are consciously trying to hurt others in their lives. Most people are doing the best they can. Upon realizing this, forgiving and learning the lesson they brought was I able to take a step closer to loving them. When I was able to completely release any attachment I had to the memory of the trauma being in my life, only then was I able to love them.

Self Worth Sabotage

Self worth issues had always troubled me. Plain and simple I wanted to feel unworthy. The length of trouble my subconscious would go through to sabotage positive situations in my life was simply astounding. Unworthiness gave me a feeling of being loved and I wanted this feeling in all my relationships. This may seem at odds with what my conscious mind wanted, but our subconscious works in ways that oppose what we consciously desire. Once this was discovered the highest truth of love could be learned.

Solving Problems from a Functional Paradigm

For a time I was consumed by the negativity around me and fear for the future of humanity. It was through this experience that I was able to acknowledge that negativity exists, but exclude it from my reality. When you exclude negativity from your reality it has no hold over you.

Thinking Outside of the Box

Many who begin this work question how changes in beliefs show up in one’s physical life. Here is a real life experience. In 2011 I travelled to Mexico and desired to stay for a few months. Unfortunately most nice places were far above my budget and the places I could afford were unsuitable. In order to find a solution I focused on clearing my perceived limitations around locating and negotiating living arrangements. After several real-time experiences and re-adjustment of beliefs I soon had the offer of several luxury apartments at 75% off to choose from.

Positive Foundation

While pondering the question ‘why are individuals unable to heal’, I was able to put together the pieces of the puzzle and discovered that the human condition is negativity. Humanity is so negative that we do perceived positive things in our life with unintended negative consequences. For example, taking action by dieting to avoid a negative (i.e. judgement from others) is a negative action that can only lead to negative results. You must always remember to consider if the action you are taking is positive or negative so you can build from a positive foundation in your life.

Conscious Evolution

In my desire to help you reach your potential I’ve been inspired to develop a new way to become your most authentic self. A way of focusing on positivity in your life that is new. The focus is on building a positive platform on which to grow and move forward. The process of building a positive platform takes you outside the box that you have allowed humanity to put you in. The ultimate goal is to allow every human to reach their potential in a world of unlimited possibilities while embracing unconditional love. Are you ready to evolve?